I believe everyone was put in this earth to be whittled and sand papered down until what’s left is who truly they are. But let’s look at the society and single moms, they always labeled and everyone seems to have opinions about them.
I hope you never reduced to the point where you a single parent, because then you will know. Look at the society, what do people think when they see a single mom. They only see the label, they judge and then carry on with their days.
Single moms are great people, most caused by a sudden change in life, others by choice. Let’s ask, Is it realy the case that single mothers are any less capable, any more feckless, than a couple who have children and not bother to raise them properly. Am not trying to justify single moms should be encouraged, but it has to be embraced.
I can’t stand it when people think it’s okey to question single moms’ life, like for example, how did one manage to gain so much as a single mom?what’s realy the implication? My dear people let us see single moms as normal people.
Sometimes a single mom gets angered and asks, why get bothered about the social stigma? Why be bothered what people think? Why not just get their head down and get on with life? You wonder but then its is you, labeled as a single mom.
The society most denigrates the effort that goes into being a single mom. They are most treated as second class. People forget, many men dissapear from child’s life and make little or no effort to remain a father figure once the relationship with the mother is dissolved. Sometimes moms are in abusive relationships, and they try hard to maintain a civil relationship but it can’t work and the single status crops up.
Let’s always remember, not all choose to be single, with all the belief, all stereotypes, nobody wants to be in that category .
I encourage moms to hold on,and go deeper, because God has a plan for your life and its good. This life can change in a blink,look for good that is due you. Always remind yourself that “I am an amazing MOM”.
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